They swapped the connectors when the face lift came out, 2012<. Ford can easily source the pre-facelift dab unit. It just so happens you got the wrong year
Because I'm nice though, I'll take it off your hands so it doesn't cause you any stress
i had a feeling there would be a version that would fit into my car but it looks like I'd be better waiting for a Sony dab 2011 model to pop up on eBay. I sent my 2013 model back to the original owner on eBay.