in short no ther pulsing is caused by the solid wheel conversion which isnt designed to soak up the vibration and pulsing effect from the gearbox the only way to eleviate it is to remove it some one asked about changing the dmf prior to this post and i warned them to find out what would happen as its common on many vw to do this conversion with the same issues you have now you have 2 choices 1 live with it 2 replace it with a dmf that really is all there is to it mate sorry theres nothing that can help you
Surely Valeo can't expect to sell these kits and not have numerous customers complain about excessive clutch vibration!?
If this is a common issue AND they want to sell these flywheel kits AND claim that there is little or no difference in clutch feel from the kit to the DMF (as did on the phone to me) then they should either offer a solution to the problem or take them off of the market!!!
You can't expect to live with or resell a car in this condition unless the potential customer has lost all feeling in his left leg!