Seems to be some confusion on exhaust smoke here!
Black is partly burnt fuel (too much fuel, not enough air, usually a boost leak).
White is totally unburnt fuel, can be oil or diesel (blown turbo seals or knackered glow plugs)
White steam is just water (normal from combustion, but a lot can be a blown headgasket)
Blue is fully burnt oil (valve stems, headgasket, piston rings)
Too much oil will find a way out through the weakest seal, but there is a tolerance built into the dipstick anyway. A couple of mm over the max mark probably won't cause any issues at all. At main dealer srvices I was tod to fill the oil right to the maximum mark as the owners may not check it in the whole year before the next service!